Baby N's Father
The one I thought signed away his rights..
He called baby N's cw yesterday, but don't freak out yet, ok.
He still denies it's his, doesn't want to do DNA test and the only reason he signed away rights to his daughter was because the grandma adopted her.
Baby N's caseworker explained that he was in an excellent adoptive home, doing well and they are able to meet all his medical needs.
He said that was fine and to let us have him because he flat out told her he could not care for him. He said as long as bio mom is TPR'd and he doesn't go back with her, he will testify against her and sign away rights, whatever it takes for him not to go home with bio mom.
On the other hand, if bio mom were getting him back, he'd take baby N, because although he cannot take care of him, he could do better than bio mom.
CW says hell no to attending the birthday party and to blame her.
TPR hearing should be scheduled in the next 45-60 days.
I'll update more later. I have to go answer the phone today. I guess the auditor's will have to fend for themselves.
He called baby N's cw yesterday, but don't freak out yet, ok.
He still denies it's his, doesn't want to do DNA test and the only reason he signed away rights to his daughter was because the grandma adopted her.
Baby N's caseworker explained that he was in an excellent adoptive home, doing well and they are able to meet all his medical needs.
He said that was fine and to let us have him because he flat out told her he could not care for him. He said as long as bio mom is TPR'd and he doesn't go back with her, he will testify against her and sign away rights, whatever it takes for him not to go home with bio mom.
On the other hand, if bio mom were getting him back, he'd take baby N, because although he cannot take care of him, he could do better than bio mom.
CW says hell no to attending the birthday party and to blame her.
TPR hearing should be scheduled in the next 45-60 days.
I'll update more later. I have to go answer the phone today. I guess the auditor's will have to fend for themselves.
posted by Lisa @ 5:44 AM
6 Comments:
At 7:15 AM,
Anonymous said…
It just keeps getting better, huh? I will be hoping the TPR hearing comes up quickly so there will be no more of these issues coming out of the woodwork. How are you holding up?
Hopefully the phones are quiet today.
At 7:31 AM,
No Longer In Crisis said…
Praying for a QUICK TPR so all of this can be over. Yikes.
At 7:32 AM,
GLouise said…
Interesting! Sounds like bio dad won't contest you guys. Fingers crossed and praying!
At 7:32 AM,
Julie said…
THat is GREAT news! Yea for Bio Dad to have the kuhunas(sp?) to stand up for what is right for Baby N! I am glad your not going to the party- the more I think about it- it scared me.
At 9:22 AM,
x said…
Man, what a ride. I am glad that bio dad sounds alot more intelligent than bio mom. I'll be so happy for you when baby n is yours forever.
At 11:20 AM,
soralis said…
Sounds complicated.
Hope all of this is over soon.
Take care
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