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Adopted 3 boys out of foster care, then got pregnant for my beautiful daughter, now currently pregnant again with twins.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Bubbles - Quick update

L had a long talk with Bubbles' parents. They are going to the judge to request her to be moved back with us. She also said she'd get in touch with us first before they took the new baby. I'm gonna try not to think about it too much and just see what happens. TPR on Bubbles supposedly scheduled this Dec. I'll update if I get any new info.

K is doing great in my school. The classes are smaller and the attitude has been staying at home for the most part and away from school(which is good). He did almost get an expulsion hearing,but he just didn't think about what he was doing when he brought a prescription itching powder to school. We are signing adoption papers and should finalize in 4-6 months. We fight like brother and sister, but we will both make the best of things and try to live with each other. I know it sounds bad, but we are probably his last hope.

I complain about him mostly to relieve stress. This is my place to vent and unless you're taking a teenager and struggling with teenage issues, plus the extra from abuse/neglect, don't judge me. Just because I vent here honestly, doesn't mean I'm not trying to do the best for K and my family. I am dealing with social workers who are basically telling me I'm on my own if he gets expelled from school after the adoption. I have a child who lies and those lies could cost me my entire family at any given moment. I live in fear of what will happen next at school(with 2 suspensions already this year). This is WAY beyond normal teenage issues.

6 Comments:

  • At 10:50 PM, Blogger JUST A MOM said…

    WHY are you keeping him in yoru home??? no judging just really livign through teens with these issues it is such a heart break.. and HARD LIFE..... just questioning... please Know that I pray for you and understand the feeling of being the last hope,,,,,, I only look at my own life and question AT WHAT PRICE? hang in there and I know you will do what is best for you all jsut a little input you don't want or need. ((HUGS))

     
  • At 7:35 PM, Blogger skywalker9 said…

    I would love an invite into the princess palace.
    skywalker8588@yahoo.com

    You go girl!

     
  • At 1:39 PM, Blogger Rachel said…

    Praying for your family and especially for Bubbles!

     
  • At 8:41 PM, Blogger sparks said…

    so glad to hear that things are somewhat working out with K.
    Did bubbles come back into care, or did I miss something? that would be great if you were able to get her back, and the new baby as well. isn't there another one also?

     
  • At 3:51 PM, Blogger Dream Mommy said…

    Bubbles never went home. She was just doing home visits. L ran into her mom and dad and they had a long talk. She never wanted Bubbles to leave and wanted us to take the other(not to keep obviously, but since he was in care anyway). Now that she knows the truth, she wants her with us and said she had an aunt to talk little brother. She also said she'd contact us when her new baby was born if they try to take it(yes, she's pregnant again).

     
  • At 12:46 PM, Blogger Sparks said…

    Okay I see it now. Just the last post when L seen them at the store and she was dirty I just assumed she had went home. thanks

     

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